Code of Conduct
The manners of the house are the membership itself.
Every Dragon and Angel agrees to these standards before they step through the door. They are not suggestions. They are the reason the club can exist.
§ Ten Articles
Read once. Remember always.
01
Discretion is absolute
What is seen, heard or felt inside a LOVE house remains there. Members do not discuss other members by name, describe events in identifiable detail, or share locations, dates or photographs with anyone outside the club. A breach of discretion is a breach of membership.
02
Respect is the only currency
Every Dragon and Angel arrives as a guest of equal standing. Courtesy, punctuality and attentiveness are expected without exception. No member may raise their voice, use coarse language, or behave in a manner that diminishes another guest.
03
No financial negotiation in person
A Dragon never discusses allowance, fees or arrangements directly with an Angel. All financial matters are handled privately through the concierge. This preserves the grace of the evening and the dignity of both parties.
04
Masks in shared spaces
Masks are worn in all common areas of an event. They may be removed only in private suites or when both parties have explicitly agreed. This is not theatre — it is the architecture of trust.
05
No photography, no devices
Cameras, recording devices and phone calls are prohibited in event spaces. Phones should remain silenced and out of sight. The house team will gladly hold personal items in secure storage.
06
Consent is continuous
Interest in one evening does not imply interest in another. Either party may decline or withdraw at any time, without explanation. A graceful acceptance of 'no' is the mark of a member.
07
Honest ratings
After each event, members rate one another across several dimensions. These ratings are confidential and used solely to refine future curation. Dishonest or retaliatory ratings undermine the entire league and will result in review.
08
Substance and sobriety
Alcohol is served with restraint. Intoxication to the point of impaired judgement is not permitted. Illegal substances are strictly forbidden on club premises and will result in immediate expulsion.
09
Arrivals and departures
Members arrive at the appointed time and depart by 2 PM the following day, or earlier according to their own convenience. Staggered arrivals protect privacy; prompt departures respect the house staff and the next evening's preparations.
10
The house decides
The house team and concierge have full authority to address any behaviour that threatens the atmosphere or safety of an event. Their instruction is final. Refusal to comply may result in removal and termination of membership without refund.
§ Enforcement
A single violation can end a membership.
Warnings are rare. The club preserves its atmosphere for the many by acting decisively against the few who compromise it. There is no appeal to social media; there is only the quiet decision of the membership committee.